Michèle Ribot, une femme comme une autre, juste un peu plus courageuse peut-être.. A woman like others, just a little more courageous perhaps

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Avec Hélène Larrivé, inséparables

Michèle Ribot, 5 ans, école de Clet (lien)

    

    






























Beautiful all the same
Life after cancer, without reconstruction, 20 years later* (when you see the tragedies linked to PIP implants, it's probably better).. even if a a perfect gentleman (!), having chosen this pretext as another one, told her "I can't desire you now". Bravo.  Sometimes, the desesperate will to please men at any cost.. can kill (link.)

* She was said "lost" by some doctors, and she answered "OK it is the war, I shall win it." So she did.

La vie après le cancer, 20 ans après, sans reconstruction* (lorsqu'on voit les drames reliés aux prothèses pip (lien), c'est sans doute mieux ainsi!) Bravo! Belle tout de même, même si un parfait gentleman ayant choisi ce prétexte comme un autre, lui a dit tout de go "je ne peux plus te désirer maintenant".. (!) Parfois, vouloir plaire aux hommes ou à un seul à tout prix peut tuer.  

* Des médecins la disaient perdue, auxquels elle répondit "OK, c'est la guerre, et bien je vais la gagner." Et elle la gagna. 

 

 Edwige, morte après la pose d'un implant déficient (lien)..

Hedwig, died because of an defective implant (link)..  

PS Just a detail : Michèle has done some masonry works ! with her daughters and husband to repair her house and a castle : result 20 years after, several herniated disc. 


Juste un détail : Michèle a fait des travaux de maçonnerie avec ses filles et son mari pour réparer sa maison et restaurer un château (Montalet): résultat 20 ans après, plusieurs hernies discales.

DSK, un boutiquier comme un autre.. DSK, a shopkeeper as an other one..

Du Sofitel à Karachi, cinéma in live par heleneclaude

Lien avec le blog-base (bitissime)

Link with the blog "bitissime"

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Translation video

 The first picture is the cover of a book, a famous black detective story, of Francis Carco, "Some rififi (muddles) among men" ("men" in french argot can also mean "pimp"or gangster) from which was shot a film with Humprey Bogardt.

 DSK’s case in 5 points. 
Itinerary of an "innocent" 

First: "I have an alibi".. Second : "I'll don't say anything before the result of DNA.." Third : "She was consenting".. Fourth : "well, how much for a "pipe" (fellatio) ?" Fifth : "But I have parliamentary immunity! So it is free!

(About kickbacks, affair of Taïwan's frigates). "Suitcases, suitcases, full to bursting!"... Christine Deviers Joncourt, girl friend of Roland Dumas, minister : "I don't tell you the weight!" Then, of course… (Bomb attack at Karachi, 18 died, probably because the huge retrocommissions promised by Balladur -Sarko was his chief of electoral campaign- were not payed by his victorious challenger, Chirac.)

Sarko : These ass holes ! just as the fat one (DSK) was out of game! and even "Mister Muscles" (de Villepin, a tall and handsome man -that Sarko is not- who likes to show himself in bath suit to cause the other's jalousy), in the sawdust ! Please, tell me the Sofitel and I’ll tell you Clearstream! You shut up, beware. The Yugoslavs, they are not trustable. (Gaubert, a suitcases carrier in the Karachi affair was betrayed by his own wife, yugoslav, after their divorce. So did the wife of another one, Taikedine, because he didn't want to give her the money she needed -her spousal support!-)

7 september, killing of Massoud, 11 september, the twin towers.. Florence Cassez' case. "Beware, you are going to see who is Sarko".. "beware, you are going to see who is Calderon".. Sarko : "I had a dream, I would be Zorro and there were a nice prisoner (Florence Cassez) in a wild country (Mexico)... I fly to deliver her.. and everyone would forget all the pans at my tail." Florence Cassez, expiration date, 22/4/12. See from the bridge. HL

Oyez oyez, il paraitrait que le monsieur attaque Nafissatou Diallo.. je cite "pour lui avoir fait perdre des opportunités professionnelles" (sic!).. Eh oui, sans elle, il serait à présent Président de la République, pensez ! et pourrait s'amuser en paix sans des emmerdeuses pour brailler et alerter pour une petite pipe de rien du tout. Impinité parlementaire on dit.. Un gag? Il semble que non. Les américains sont des gens formidables... 

C'est sans doute juste une manœuvre pour éviter de raquer trop dur, Anne, sous son sourire impavide (raz le bol sans doute d'être devenue une sorte de rat de laboratoire haut de gamme, le paradigme de la femme trompée et bafouée par un pervers, on va sans doute en faire comme pour Dora un cas étudié en psy et il y aura des thèses sur le sujet)... Anne donc doit peut-être râler dans la cuisine : il va faire la soustraction, genre, d'accord il lui a fait perdre (outre une partie de sa vie de femme, mais ça...bof).. son mirifique boulot de femme de ménage... mais elle, celui de Président de la République pour lui.. alors hein, pour qui elle se prend ce boudin? 3 millions de dollars moins 3 millions de dollars égale zéro et hop. Société du spectacle et du fric. Espérons qu'une telle outrecuidance indisposera le juge, même américain. 
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DSK, Parliamentary "impinity"*

Oyez Oyez, it would seem that DSK (now nicknamed "bitissime", from "bite" popular term for penis, and "issime" which means chief, huge, famous -that is the name of my blog about him-) is going to attack Nafissatou, I quote, because "she had made him lost professional opportunities" (sic) .. Yes, without her, it would be now President of the Republic and could have fun in peace without "emmerdeuses" ("pain in the ass makers") to yell for a small "pipe" (fellatio) of nothing at all. Parliamentary Impinité they say .. A sketch? Apparently not. Americans are wonderful people. It's probably just a maneuver, an handling to avoid to pay too hard (Anne, under her fearless smile is probably fed up of becoming a sort of lab rat, the paradigm of the deceived wife by one perverse husband.. that she must clear customs with her money, it will probably be the subject, as Breuer for "the case Dora", of lot of psychological studies, there is here for some ambitious students, a rich material for at least 50 years)... Anne must bitching in the kitchen when she does her accounts. So he'll do the subtraction : okay he has cost to Nafi her wondrous work as a cleaner (also a part of his life and dignity, but ...) .. but she, she had cost him those of President of the Republic! 3.4 million - 3.3 million less equal... and presto, it's packed weighed... For which she takes her, this dirty rag ? Society of the spectacle and money. Hope that such an arrogance will make the judge out of him, furious, even an American one. An idea: could we give a symbolic decoration at Nafissatou Diallo who alerted all of us, before we put on the throne such a guy, which would have made us an historic shame if during his tenure, other cases like Nafi  would happen in any "impinité", which probably would not fail?

* It is a pun : the real word is imunity (as for the virus!). "Impunité" (impunity) comes from from "punish", but "pine" is a vulgar french term for "penis". 

How to get rid of a perverse relation ? For Michèle, (an mayor's wife !) who had succeeded... but lost some feathers..

2 Comment se libérer d'une relation perverse... par heleneclaude

... [It is worse in her case because politicians have an huge habit of manipulating, plots, double or triple gamesare, it is professional, almost vocational !]

"THAT ARE THE SLAVES WHO MAKE THE TYRANTS" (SPINOZA) AS AND MORE THAN THE REVERSE.

How to get rid of a perverse relation? First, you have to know and to repeat all the time that the perverse works with the bluff, the comedy, sometimes very subtle, sometimes rough. Little by little, he had succeed to persuade you that HE is great, cleverest, like a genius indeed... and you not. Not at all. Then, that you have no value. At the beginning he always plays soft.. but the didascalia increases little and little, more and more.. So, first, you are "just a little bit without value, a very little", and at the end you are "a dirty rag unable to live without him and who exploits and abuses the poor man he is". Are you that? Yes, in a sense, but you became that zero, instead the intelligent and brave woman you were. How is it possible? I don't know and it is a kind of mystery. How people can fight and kill each others to obey at their chief is the same mystery, heavier than the first. The perverse (or the chief) chooses a special prey, a person, often a woman, if possible brilliant, but not conscient of her value, because (for instance) in her childhood, nobody has never recognised it. She has the habit to do and do.. for the others, more and more, to work efficiently, and to ask nothing... not even a thank, not even a look. The problem is previous : she is formatted like that. The curious fact is that the perverse sometimes has had almost the same passed, (he was exploited for instance by his mother who treated him like her husband)..  but he was also valorised, and that is the difference. So, he was a "king" and intends to stay it. But be a king has an inconvenient that he don't know to do anything, he cannot, because everybody had all done for him in his childhood.  So he falls in love (as you can say) with a very different person, and it seems that he chooses her as if a scent, an intuition led him to the convenient character for him. As a piece of puzzle which exactly snaps to another one. The question is that of education : two opposite, one as bad, than the other.

The fold taken, it is difficult to go back. But it is possible, even later. But you have to expect some crisis, because he doesn't like to lose, one person or his money. It is just impossible for him : he is the king and a king never is left.. under pain of death. So, he'll attack by all weapons he could find. But you have to know that he is powerful as long as you feel him powerful. If you don't care, he is just a child crying to make you turn back to him. Because he cannot live without you, and now it is clear. And the opposite is … the opposite : you cannot live with him, it is unhealthy for you.

"Free à votre service" un exemple de manipulation, ""Free" at your service", an example of commercial manipulation

Plus de téléphone depuis hier, (je vis en rase campagne), mais une sinistre messagerie qui indique qu'il n'y a pas d'abonné au numéro demandé. Suis-je subrepticement morte? Ai-je filé sans crier gare abandonnant lâchement les stembrouilliens à leur triste sort (RMI coupé, chemins dévastés, petites affaires entre potes etc..) ? Des gens, inquiets téléphonent sur mon portable mais ça coûte...

J'appelle Free. Une boîte vocale me demande l'objet de mon appel, tapez un, tapez deux etc.. puis mes identifiants et mes codes, tapez un, tapez deux... Évidemment, je ne les ai pas. On m'affirme alors qu'on va me les envoyer par SMS mais, étonnant, on me demande, non pas mon numéro de portable... mais de téléphone fixe, cercle vicieux puisque j'appelle justement parce qu'il ne fonctionne pas ! Et évidemment, rien ne vient. 

J'ai heureusement encore le net et sur le site, je trouve mes identifiants, ô stupeur, ce sont mes numéros de téléphone fixe, mauvais augure ! Je refais le 3244, j'envoie ce "code"... et j'obtiens évidemment "ce numéro n'est pas attribué", patate, bien sûr, c'est pour ça que je suis là. 

Retour sur le net et je trouve finalement mes identifiants (les vrais cette fois, le site est mal foutu), rappel au 3244 et on me met enfin en relation avec un monsieur qui par chance parle français, ce n'est pas toujours le cas. D'une voix suave, il réclame mon numéro de téléphone, fixe et mobile, mon adresse mail etc... et au bout d'une recherche un peu longuette, me fournit gratos (enfin non, pas gratos) un superbe exemple de manipulation commerciale que voici. Je cite exactement la conversation:

- "C'est à la base plutôt une bonne nouvelle Madame Larrive" m'annonce-t-il glorieusement, avec cette manie qu'ils ont tous de faire sonner votre nom à chaque phrase comme si vous risquiez d'oublier que vous êtes bien vous.. "nous sommes en train d'améliorer nos services et il y a en ce moment des travaux de dégroupage sur votre zone qui vont vous être bénéfiques parce que bla bla..." 

Je m'en fous. Je coupe. 

- Et ça va durer longtemps?" 

- Je ne sais pas Madame Larrive, quelques jours sans doute.." 

- QUELQUES JOURS SANS TÉLÉPHONE ? Combien?"..

- Je l'ignore Madame Larrive, mais je vous conseille d'arrêter de temps en temps votre "free box" et de la redémarrer (!) vous verrez.." (!!)

Ça chauffe : 

- Vous vous foutez de nous? Vous auriez pu prévenir les gens tout de même, c'est impensable!" 

Réponse : 

- Mais je vous ai prévenu, Madame Larrive !"

CQFD. Je disais que la manipulation s'apprend.


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No more phone since yesterday (and I live in open countryside, alone), but a sinister message indicating "there is no more subscriber to the called number." Am I secretly dead? Have I ran away  from the village, cowardly abandoning the stembrouilliens at their sad fate (little muddles between friends, devastated paths, neo colonization.. and so on) ? People, worried, call me on my mobile, but hey, it's expensive ...

 I call "Free". Voice-mail asks the object of my call, type one, type two etc.. then my "password" and my "codes", type one, type two and so on... Obviously, I have not. Type one. It is said they will send them to me via SMS but, surprisingly, they ask me, not my mobile number... but landline, an vicious circle because I called precisely because it doesn't work! And of course, nothing comes.

 I hopefully have still the net and on the "Free" site, I find my password, o surprise, these are simply my landline numbers. Ominous! But I call again the 3244 and I send this "code"... and of course I get "this number is not assigned" etc. .. Of course !

 Back on the net and I finally found my password (real this time, the site is badly screwed up), I call for the third time the 3244 and this time they put me in touch with a gentleman who fortunately speaks French (it happens they don't ! or not fluently, a mixt of araber and french wich sometimes gives hilarious sketches.. not very convenient when you are stressed). A soft voice. He asks my phone number, fixed and mobile, my email address ... and so on.. and after a little research, provides me a superb example of commercial manipulation. There is exactly the conversation:

- "This is in fact a good news Mrs Larrive" he tells me gloriously, with the mania they all have to sound your name in every sentence as if you may forget you are well you ! "We are going to improve our services and there is currently some works on unbundling in your area that will be more beneficial for you because ... "

I don't care. I cut.

- And it will last long? "

- I don't know Mrs. Larrive, probably a few days .. "

- A "FEW DAYS" WITHOUT PHONE? How much? "..

- I don't know I told you, but I suggest you to stop from times to times your "free box" and reboot it (!) and you will see well.. "(!)

I protest strongly:

- Are you kidding us? Are you joking of us? You could warn people before stopping their phone line all the same, it's unthinkable! "

Answer:

- But I had warned you, Madam Larrive! " (!!!)

CQFD*. When I said that manipulation is taught.. in commercial trainings (short ones) or schools ! 

*In french, "CQFD" is the initials of "Ce Qu'il Fallait Démonter", a mathematical expression meaning "that was asked to be proved" (understatement to say "problem resolved by evidence.")